11 yrs. Grade 5

My daughter initially complained of headaches before school – we saw a paediatrician, had her vision and hearing checked. No one indicated anxiety was a possible cause, and it was only a random internet search that tuned me in to the topic of school refusal. That allowed me to speak more openly with our daughter regarding her feelings about school. I had to – and was thankfully able to – change my work schedule to walk my child to class right at starting bell, as the pre-school chaos was very overwhelming for her. Having to attend while so anxious and emotional led to feelings of hopelessness that she would not be able to “make it through the day”. he ultimately had treatment for depression (including suicidal ideation). A private psychologist provided wonderful support. Our daughter recently told me that this year at school is “like ombre hair- it was really dark but now it’s getting lighter.”